Tuesday, 22 October 2013

Time Management Tips That Truly Worked For Me 2




I promised to share some time management tips I learnt from finally publishing my first book 13 long years after I began my first of many unfinished manuscripts. Like I said here, it is extremely difficult for any person to fulfil the purpose of God for one’s life without learning how to manage time effectively. We also cannot enjoy the peak of intimacy with God in daily personal fellowship with Him if we are always falling behind in meeting up with our schedules.
You may have read a lot about how to maximise your 24 hours but you are sure to find useful tips here, especially if you are working on a time-bound project.
This is the second and final post on this topic (for now). I suggest that you read the first part here so that the examples can make more sense.


4.       Discipline Yourself and Actually Do Something: You can set all the goals in the world but they will remain idle dreams until you actually take action. I think what discourages us from starting is the fear of stopping half way with yet another ‘failed’ project. I really hope that you complete Matthew to Revelations but ask yourself; wouldn’t you be better off faltering off at the end of the gospels than never starting at all?
This point is the main factor that gives meaning to all the other points. If you don’t take action, your goals will remain unfulfilled and this may breed guilt, depression and the feeling of being a failure. It could also affect your relationship with your accountability partner who will now begin to irritate you. With time, she may just let you do what you want but of what use is that to both of you? I once heard from Bishop David Abioye that “sitting before a table is the posture of seriousness.” Since ASUU was on strike, I simply opened shop at the dining table at home. I resumed every day until the work was finished.  I didn’t hang on a cross but I kinda got the idea of what Jesus meant when He said on the cross “it is finished.” It is a different kind of high.
(Prov. 6:4-9 [KJV]) Give not sleep to thine eyes, nor slumber to thine eyelids. 5 Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.  6 Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise: 7 Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler, 8 Provideth her meat in the summer, and gathereth her food in the harvest. 9 How long wilt thou sleep, O sluggard? when wilt thou arise out of thy sleep?
5.       Flee Distractions: They often told us in youth church not to stand and bind sexual immorality but to flee from it like one running from dear life. That should be the same attitude with distractions. You may have to turn off the radio on your smart phone because there are many people willing to ping you, send you an e-mail, chat on Facebook or thousands of other things that will take up the time you would have used otherwise. It was easier to concentrate on my work when I wasn’t thinking about how to answer a particular e-mail. You know what? When you turn on the phone later, the Milky Way wouldn’t have frozen over, the sun and the moon wouldn’t have exchanged shifts and the internet (or television) will still be where you left it.
I know that using the internet is a major issue for me. I love to surf the web and read one blog post after another, so I deactivate the Wi-Fi on my laptop when I have work to do. I don’t know how to teach you to be disciplined. I just know it is something you got to have. We need to be able to say “no” to immediate pleasures that can hinder our life’s purpose.
(2Tim 2:22 [KJV]) Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.
6.      Celebrate Small Victories: It has nothing to do with pride but I tried to praise myself with every tiny progress I made. I just wished that I knew this system much earlier. It was almost unbelievable when I completed the first chapter, and then the second, the third, fourth, all the way to the day I held the finished copy in my hands. Writing the draft to publishing the book took about eight months but I learnt to thank God for every stage that we completed. In the Bible reference below, you will observe how God ‘saw that it was good’ at the end of every day. He didn’t wait till EVERYTHING was over before observing a job well done.  
(Gen 1:10 [KJV]) And God called the dry land Earth; and the gathering together of the waters called He Seas: and God saw that it was good.
Note: God did not wait till it was all over before He called His works good. At the end of every day (stage), He said it was good!
7.      Pray: Sincerely, this is not an attempt to sound pious. It is simply an attempt to share what has worked and continues to work. I have learnt that time committed to God will often turn out to be time well spent especially if we do our part. I believe in this thing called grace so many times, especially when I know my will power is low, I pray for grace to be productive, to do my job like I should and to do with excellently well. After all, our sufficiency is of God and praying this way helps us to reaffirm our dependence on Him.
Like the unknown author of The Kneeling Christian said “Unless we pray aright, we cannot live aright or serve aright… prayer is omnipotent; it can do anything that God can do! When we pray, God works!
There is a special joy that comes with saying “It is finished.” Perhaps, only Jesus Christ can know the full weight of that sentence but here on earth, He has empowered us to be able to say it over and over again even as we complete our projects to His glory. Amen. 

What project are you working on or that you have you worked on? What time-management tips helped you to accomplish the projects on time?  

Friday, 18 October 2013

Time Management Tips That Truly Worked For Me 1



I promised to share some time management tips I learnt from finally publishing my first book 13 long years after I began my first of many unfinished manuscripts. Like I said here, it is extremely difficult for any person to fulfil the purpose of God for one’s life without learning how to manage time effectively. We also cannot enjoy the peak of intimacy with God in daily personal fellowship with Him if we are always falling behind in meeting up with our schedules.
Write the vision, make it plain.
You may have read a lot about how to maximise your 24 hours but you are sure to find useful tips here, especially if you are working on a time-bound project.

1.       Set Your Goals: This is like making a to-do list. Here, simplicity is very important and you need to be as specific as possible. Exactly what do you want to do and when is it expected to be done? For me, it was that the manuscript had to be complete by the end of January 2013. For you, it may be to start and complete a deep, personal study of the entire New Testament within a year.
It is important to note this goal and keep your deadline in mind. Try to break them into stages and tasks and start from the foundation up. I divided the book into likely chapters and started working my way through. For the example I started with, you may divide the New Testament into books, or better still, chapters. There are 269 chapters. Divided by 365 days, it means that you have to read at least 70% of one chapter every day. Now it doesn’t seem so daunting. Does it? Breaking it down will help you take baby steps towards the set goal.
(Hab 2:2-3 [KJV]) And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry.

2.       Have an Accountability Partner: This is another great  reason to have your own Barnabas. He can inspire you, motivate you, follow up on your progress and call your attention when you slack and take your eyes off the goal.
It is better to choose someone with whom you share similar positive value and who also believe that your goal is worth achieving. This person should be able to frankly correct you without being rude or demeaning. But it should also be someone whom you respect and value your relationship with because sometimes, it is just the thought of not letting them down that will keep you going.
I told my friend about my intention to unfailingly have a ready manuscript by January. Last day of December, all I had was an idea. My friend called me to ask how far I had gone when he heard I was on ground zero, he wasn’t pleased. He inspired and threatened and somehow, that just got me off the couch.
(Amos 3:3 [KJV]) Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
(Prov 27:17 [KJV]) Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.

3.      Strike while the Iron is hot: There is a reason people keep their New Year resolutions for at least a few days into the new year- they are freshly inspired, charged and motivated. The intensity of the decision is still high and emotional capital to back it up is still in supply. Maybe you took the decision to do the study after you heard a ‘hot sermon’ on the importance of knowing The Word and you got really challenged. Take the energy you got and plough with it as soon and for as long as you can. This is because motivational speeches are sometimes like cocaine; the high can only last for a while. If you do all you can with the ‘high’, when it fizzles out, you will be encouraged with what you’ve accomplished so far. Then, it will be your work that encourages you-not you encouraging yourself to work. That was my experience. After I wrote the first pages, I was impressed! Of course, this contributed to my staying on.
If you start reading the Gospels, and gradually finish the book of Matthew, you are better off than never starting at all.

(John 9:4 [KJV]) I must work the works of him that sent me, while it is day: the night cometh, when no man can work.

(Eccl 11:1 [KJV]) Cast thy bread upon the waters: for thou shalt find it after many days.


 
To be continued… 

What project are you working on or have you worked on? What time-management tips helped you to accomplish the projects on time?  

Wednesday, 9 October 2013

Read This If you are a Discouraged Writer




The driving force behind this platform remains helping readers to become more like Jesus (one post at a time).  This means that many times, we refer to The Bible since it is the basis of our knowledge of Jesus Himself. I strongly believe that we can’t truly grow in the faith if we don’t maintain a Siamese-like relationship with the Word. That is why my favourite post includes this quote I saw on Josh Harris’ page about when to stop reading the Bible. I have shared it about twice but I can’t stop referring to it.

Picture from ladyshearon.blogspot.com
Go on reading it until you can read no longer, and then you will not need the Bible anymore, because when your eyes close for the last time in death, and never again read the Word of God in Scripture you will open them to the Word of God in the flesh, that same Jesus of the Bible whom you have known for so long, standing before you to take you forever to His eternal home." - Geoffrey Thomas, Reading the Bible

That said, we also learn from other people who have been privileged to ‘get light’ on a topic that is relevant to our faith. That is why I try to share something I have read somewhere that you may find useful. These are posts I have read within this week that you may find useful.

1.       If you are a writer feeling a little down, this picture will help you put things in perspective. Like I said, I recently became an author and so I can relate. Sometimes, you wonder, “What is the point?” Pete’s post was quite timely. It reminds me that even if only one person gets blessed, it is worth the effort. Remember how the shepherd went after the one lost lamb? Even if you don't become a published author, you may have a blog or write tracts or something else that blesses people, be it in their faith, family, finances, etc.
Pete Wilson- Why I do what I do.
  
2.       If you know someone who still thinks pornography is art that hurts no one. Feel free to read this. Here is an excerpt:
In a fallen world, pornography becomes more than a distraction and a distortion of God’s intention for human sexuality. It comes as an addictive poison…
Viewing pornography is not an emotionally or physiologically neutral experience. It is fundamentally different from looking at black and white photos of the Lincoln Memorial or taking in a color map of the provinces of Canada. Men are reflexively drawn to the content of pornographic material. As such, pornography has wide-reaching effects to energize a man toward intimacy. It is not a neutral stimulus. It draws us in. Porn is vicarious and voyeuristic at its core, but it is also something more. Porn is a whispered promise. It promises more sex, better sex, endless sex, sex on demand, more intense orgasms, experiences of transcendence.
Albert Mohler- How Pornography works

3.      I also stumbled on this quote “We can’t go deeper in our relationship with Jesus than our daily devotions.” I may have paraphrased it as I can’t seem to track the site. But I think you get the idea. There is something similar here. 

What did you read online this week that you consider worth sharing? Please feel free to share in the comments section. 

Blessings, 
Miss August.

Friday, 4 October 2013

I Have Great News!!!

How Proper Time Management Helped Me Fulfil The Dream Of Life Time


This is for You, Jesus, the first of many more to come!

First off, today, I had the privilege and honour to change my ‘bragging rights’ on google+ from ‘Authorship very close’ to ‘Author, Waiting for Number 12’. I have been writing for about 13 years now but apart from articles in Newspapers, Magazines, I haven’t been able to complete a single manuscript much less publish one book. For someone who harps about being entrepreneurial with our time, talents and resources, only God knows how many books I have dreamed up and killed off. However, it gives me great joy to finally have this one ‘fruit’. 

I think the turning point for me to get off the couch and see this project to the end was when it really settled on my heart that the ideas we get are not merely to be fondled by the finger of our imaginations. They are the expressions of our God-given talents, expressions of His breath on our spirits and importantly, they are seeds to be planted, tools that He is willing to use as a part of His grand design for the human race (no matter how tiny the part that falls on us is). 

So, I am excited to make this announcement today. I should mention that it was self-published- I had a wonderful professional publisher but I had to foot the bill. What do you call that? I don’t know. Regardless of what it cost, it gives me great joy to hold the finished product in my hands and bless the name of God. Next project is to get the word out and get the books into the right hands (teenagers mostly, but young adults too). I have been told the title piques curiosity, but I guess that’s the idea; you will have to read it to find out.

On this note, if you are resident in Lagos, I invite you to take a look through it. I would be pleased to get a professional review. I also know that when you are through reading it, you will be able to recommend it appropriately.

In my next post, I would share major effective principles on time management that I learnt from the entire process of getting this book from draft to finish. I had only read about these principles but they became real to me and more often than not, I wasn’t aware that I was applying them. Take it from me, they work! At least, they worked for me and they should work for you too after all, time is a universal commodity and nobody has more or less than 24hours. By making the best use of our time, we are not only able to achieve daily routine goals but we are also able to lend ourselves to doing the extra that the gifts of God in our lives demand of us.

As we step into the weekend, let’s remember to make the best use of our time. Have a fun-filled, restful and productive weekend. And yes, that is a possible combination.

Cheers,
Miss August.

PS: If you would like to read through and review this book, please send me a mail through missaugustblogs@gmail.com or call me: (234) 8170143948

 PPS: I hope to put up a better picture when I update this post sometime next week.